“I’m so happy with what I did,” she said. “For me, personally, it was just like a buildup, like I needed to say something because at the end of the day, […] I was keeping the peace for everybody else, but like, what about the peace within me? What about my peace when I lay my head on the pillow at night?”

Now, in this new season of her life, Nicole is focusing on tapping back into her broadcast journalism roots and building her health and wellness platform, Tribe Therepe. Shutting out social media has been a part of that journey. 

“When it comes to the internet, I’ve just learned that in the long run, it’s a waste of my energy,” she said. “I turned off my comments recently; you can’t DM me anymore because people just talk crazy,” she told the hosts. “I’ve had enough. […] It’s a new year, and to be honest, it’s the same me, so in order for it to be a new me, I need to do some new things. That starts with protecting my peace.” 

LOS ANGELES, CALIFORNIA – NOVEMBER 01: Kayla Nicole (R) attends a basketball game between the Los Angeles Lakers and the Los Angeles Clippers at Crypto.com Arena on November 01, 2023 in Los Angeles, California. NOTE TO USER: User expressly acknowledges and agrees that, by downloading and or using this photograph, User is consenting to the terms and conditions of the Getty Images License Agreement. (Photo by Allen Berezovsky/Getty Images)

While Nicole built a community based on her transparency on social media, she’s setting boundaries moving forward. She even joked about keeping her next relationship so private that by the time social media sees it, she will be married and have a three-year-old child. 

Ultimately, despite the drama that came from her last romance, Nicole is not letting societal pressure impact dating at 32. 

“All of my relationships have been building blocks to mold me into the woman that I am now, and so when I meet the right person, I’m not starting from scratch,” she said, sharing the best dating advice she’s received since the breakup. “[Instead] I’m starting from this developed, evolved, confident, self-assured version of myself, and I’m more ready now to be a wife or a mother than I was before. I didn’t lose any of those things that I learned in the past; if anything, I’m bringing value and something new.”


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