“There’s some broken things that happen,” says former first lady Michelle Obama about sustaining a marriage.
Michelle Obama doesn’t want anyone to get the wrong idea about marriage or relationships.
While she and her marriage of 31 years to former President Barack Obama are regarded as #CoupleGoals for many, the former first lady opened up about marriage and the considerable amount of effort and growth it requires on the “
Obama described how marriages go through seasons and evolutions. Early on in their relationship, she said she and Barack would have hurt feelings that would take days to rectify.
“Year 30? It’s like, ‘Ah, there she goes again, or there he goes again,’” she teased.
She continued, “I know how to talk to him about it and when because we’ve practiced it. We’ve made a lot of mistakes. We’ve gotten it wrong. And after 31 years, we’re getting better at it, and it gets better and better.”
Obama reiterated that, above all else, the expectation that marriage is supposed to be easy or without any challenges whatsoever is a false one.
“Why do we put so much pressure on marriage to not be hard?” she questioned.
Marriage, she said, encompasses attempting to build a life with someone who “wasn’t raised in your shoes” and who has a different temperament.
“Of course, it’s gonna be hard,” she declared. “But I wouldn’t trade in my marriage for anything in the world — with all the ups and downs, with all the running-for-president stuff.”
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