OPINION: A social media trend introduced me to Long’s 2023 single, and now I cannot stop listening to this song that was made for me (pun intended).
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I’m not one of those people who bemoans the current state of hip-hop and R&B. I’m able to enjoy much of the music that’s released nowadays and ignore, without judgment, the music that is not intended for me. Music has changed so much since I was younger — something that I’m sure my parents also felt — that it would be insane for me to get stuck in my era as the one that matters most.
With that said, every now and then a current artist drops a song that is so reminiscent of the era of music I hold near and dear that I can’t help but listen on a constant loop as a sign of nostalgia and appreciation. Such is the case with a song that I heard while perusing Instagram one day: Muni Long’s “Made For Me.”
While doing my daily Instagram scrolling for videos of pets doing funny things, friends teaching me about new things and checking my DMs for the neverending stream of memes that my sister sends me, I saw a video (on mute at first) of
It’s so good that I have even considered making my own video singing with my whole heart. I want to go outside and stand in the rain, Ray J’s “One Wish”-style, and give my entire soul to singing the chorus of this song. I want to put on a jersey of a player that never existed and some XXXL jeans with some Nike Air Force Ones and pretend it’s 2003, and the person I love won’t return my calls … or spin the block as the kids say nowadays.
I have had this song on repeat well over 100 times so far in the past few days since I first heard it, and I don’t see that ending any time soon. I keep thinking about who could have sung this song back then. I could hear Brandy hopping on a remix with Muni Long and KILLING this song because of her vocal layering and stacked vocals. Or Monica because of the sheer power of her voice. I can even hear Mariah Carey singing this song. Muni’s version is amazing, and I love it. I just hear my 20s when listening to this jam.
Also, I‘d be remiss if I didn’t point out how the video adds to the experience because Muni kills her ex (who has moved on) and makes a robot version of him with his head, effectively ruining another family’s life, but hey, love makes you do crazy things, no? Seriously, the video is creepy AF; shouts out to Luke James, who plays the love/death interest in it. The video made me think of “Made For Me” in an entirely different context; now I can ALSO see this song as a prime-level stalker jam. Either way, “Made For Me” is the perfect throwback jam, and I’m so glad it exists. I will sing it at karaoke and nobody else will have a chance.
Twin, where have you been?
Panama Jackson is a columnist at theGrio. He writes very Black things, drinks very brown liquors, and is pretty fly for a light guy. His biggest accomplishment to date coincides with his Blackest accomplishment to date in that he received a phone call from Oprah Winfrey after she read one of his pieces (biggest), but he didn’t answer the phone because the caller ID said: “Unknown” (Blackest).
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